this is something that i dunnoe how to handle... u can always help ppl to come up wif many ideas to solve the problem... but u can nv come out wif an idea to solve ur own problem... jus like a doc who cannot operate on himself and a hairdresser who cannot cut her own hair... lying is definitely not my way of doing things... becos i hate liar... but there are times when there is no choice but to lie... i wish that i'm jus thinking too much and misunderstood the meaning... i jus hope everything will be fine eventually and i do not need to resort to the last move... but it will nv be the same again i guess...